As a child, I was so severely spanked that I would lose all controll over my bowels and bladder, and deficated all over myself, still the beating would go on, spreading the mess to cover large parts of my body. I don't know if my my mother was in another room, or outside of the home, just know that she was not defending me, verbally or physically. The humiliation of having to clean myself up, change clothes, while crying was so deeply buried, until I read this "Plain talk about Spanking" Thank you. Please do not use my name.